Common Mistakes in Your Dating Profile You Need to Eliminate

The fact that your profile might not be very popular with the female audience of a particular dating site is indicative of one thing – it doesn’t stand out. In terms of off-line dating, your appearance, personality, and manners are your main “hooks”. When it comes to the online dating game, here your profile plays the role of that hook that represents different aspects of you, including appearance and personality. To navigate the dating pool, it’s important to have a good “ship”, that is a catchy dating profile. However, many men underestimate the power of a carefully completed profile. If you think your online dating profile needs some improvement, then it’s time to get rid of the following mistakes.

Inappropriate main photo. Your main profile photo is the first thing your potential matches see. Based on their first impression of you, they will decide whether to contact you (swipe right) or not. If your current main photo is a group picture, a photo of low quality, a photo in which you are wearing sunglasses/holding some alcohol drink/not smiling, you should immediately change your profile photo. All those types of photo are quite repelling for women, so they may be ignoring your profile because of it.

Not many pictures in the profile. You should remember one thing: the pictures you upload help you tell a story about your life, sort of support what you say in your bio. That’s why you should pick really meaningful pictures. Make sure your profile includes a picture of you with friends, some pictures from your trips, a photo of you involved in a certain activity, and a non-banal selfie. If you don’t add enough pictures, other users may think that you’re a secretive person hence suspicious.

Too long or too scarce bio. The profile sections, like “Bio” or “About Me”, are meant for giving some facts about your character, interests, and favorite pastimes. Usually, men go to two extremes – they either write long-reads or give a little information about themselves. Nobody is interested in reading your biography, the same as nobody wants to see a few words in your profile. That’s why keep it concise and informative – give some prominent traits of your character, describe your passions, and indicate what you’re looking for in terms of relationships.

Starting with “hi”. With a pretty high level of competition on dating sites, you can’t expect that your initial message that says only “hi” will get a response. You should get your potential date interested. The easiest way to start a dialog is to ask a question. It should concern something you’ve just seen or read in her profile.Focusing only on one woman. There are plenty of fish in the dating pool, so it’s not rational to contact only one woman at a time. Send initial messages to all women whose profiles evoke certain interest in you. You can learn whether you are good matches only through communication, so initiate dialogs and see where they go.